Becoming, the best kept secret for women in midlife.
You can feel it in your bones. Something is calling you. It's as if you've lost a part of yourself, somewhere along the road of your life. Something just isn't right. But you can't quite put your finger on it. Is this midlife? Is this menopause? Or could there be more to it? Your heart longs for an escape. To a place where there's no musts, no performing, no judgement. A place where you can just be. Where you are held, instead of always having to be the one to hold. Where you are understood. Seen and heard in everything that you are, and are going through. A space where you are joined by other women, exactly in the same stage of their lives. A space created for you. To remember. To reveal. To become who you truly are. That is Becoming. A rite of passage, where we go through the change together.
May 2 - 8, 2027. Andalucía, Spain.
For women who feel there's more to midlife than symptoms and treatments.
Life is full of initiations. Milestones. Moments where we can feel we leave one chapter behind, and step into the next one. Not knowing what lies ahead of us. The space in between can be uncomfortable. We grieve what was, but can't see what's coming yet. There was a time where these important times of change in people's lives where consciously celebrated. Where people gathered to reflect. To help each other across the treshold. To share wisdom. Grieving the part of life that ended, consciously pausing and reflecting, and then celebrating the new lifestage they stepped into. That is what Becoming is for you. A journey. A remembering of what midlife has always been: a liminal space. A rite of passage. The beginning of your second spring. Make it a conscious one.
Seven days. May 2-8, 2027. The nurturing surroundings and blissful silence of Gaucín, in the south of Spain.
You are so welcome.
Inge Delva
Your host & Midlife midwife
Arrive. Pause. Unravel. Remember. Reclaim. Become.
A rite of passage
Not another wellness retreat
A retreat offers rest. Restores energy. And may leave you refreshed. But it doesn't necessarily encourage true change. However, that is what midlife - the change - is asking of us.
Midlife is a liminal space. A threshold in between. You are no longer who you were, and not yet who you are becoming. This inbetween brings discomfort. The kind that most women try to escape, while that is where the magic resides.
A rite of passage helps you to remain in the discomfort long enough for something new to emerge. It's a space where we don't force the answers, but instead: honour the questions. We don't create transformation, we reveal and support a change that life has already set in motion. Together.
It asks for your courage. It asks of you to surrender. And it will leave you fundamentally changed.
Becoming is coming soon
what you can do to prepare
Put your name on the waiting list
You will be the first to hear when the doors open. And to register at presale conditions. Putting your name on the waiting list does not oblige you to register for Becoming (although we promise you'll be tempted).
Keep an eye on your mailbox
Becoming is a rite of passage. A safe and secret space for 10 women only. Women who are, just like you, at the crossroads of midlife. We are going to take this wave together. If you are on the waiting list, you will be the first to get all the info.
Get to know me a little bit better
A rite of passage is something you want to surrender to with someone you trust. Someone you like. So take your time and get to know me. Here, on my socials, or send me a DM for an online coffee.
Save the date(s)
Becoming is a rite of passage where we retreat from the world for seven days, and immerse ourselves in the beautiful nature of Gaucín, in the south of Spain.
Next edition: May 2nd - 8th, 2027.
Not sure you are ready for Becoming?
Maybe spending a week abroad with a group of women is not for you. Maybe you don't like travelling. Maybe you don't have the time or the resources to escape for a week to focus on you. Maybe you do want to discover what the discomfort of midlife is trying to tell you, but you want to do so from the comfort of your own home. At your own pace. Whatever the reason is, I've got you covered. RECLAIM is my 7 day online journey where I bring the exact presence, guidance and attunement that I bring to Becoming. For just €67.